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Random Musings: I don’t have time….

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Every single person on earth has the exact same amount of time every single day. We ALL get 24 hours to do whatever we need and want to do each day. What we make of that time is up to US….

When we feel like we don’t HAVE time for something, it’s almost always because we have not chosen to MAKE the time to do it because that thing is simply not a priority to us.

You can find the time. It exists. You choose not to devote the time, and there’s a big difference.

Every day, we make hundreds of decisions as to what we will and will not make time for.

We will all make different decisions at different times and in different seasons of life. The difference is not bad — it’s just priorities. It’s ALL About Priorities!

Fess Up If Your Priorities Change

Of course, our lives change and circumstances change. But when that happens to you, take the time to give the ramifications of those changes real thought, helping to see how priorities might have to shift correspondingly.

And most importantly, be honest with yourself. Admit that what once was critically important to you might not be as important now. Don’t blame it on not having enough time. That’s just code for “I don’t care as much as I used to, but haven’t admitted it to myself yet.”

So as we countdown to the wrap up of this crazy, crazy year called: “2016”, spend a few hours with yourself thinking about your priorities this year, and how they could or should change in 2017. It will give you a lot more clarity (and possibly a lot less guilt) down the road.

Knowing who you are and what you want can help set you in the right direction, and the earlier you start thinking about your life goals and what’s truly important to you, the easier it is to make the appropriate decisions and plans to reach it. ~ Twin Spirit

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Random Musings: Are You Ready To Grow?

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This message was on my heart when I awoke today. Spirit said to share: “Each day is not promised nor is each moment guaranteed. Remember to make/take time for those you really care for and love & for those you consider to be of value and important in your life. We often spend more time trying to impress those that don’t matter and trying to build our value to those who truly don’t care.

We are so “Ego” lead and accolade seeking that we take for granted that the people who genuinely love us will just wait on us to make space in our lives when it’s convenient for us and that those who mean something to us will always be there. So we push them to the back burner time and time again.

We expend tremendous amounts of energy and resources trying to prove “We Are Somebody” & “We Are Worthy” to those who are basically strangers and honestly who don’t give a damn. Yet we often say we don’t have time for those who have stood the test of time, who have loved & accepted us at our best and at our worst. We chase smoke and mirrors seeking validation yet cannot stand to spend a moment with those who have seen our true faces and love us just the way we are.

The adulation from the sea of bodiless faces glaring at us from our computer screens and mobile devices have become addictive and more important to us than the I love you’s, hugs, I want you’s, I miss you’s, & let’s spend some time request that come from flesh and blood people in your life that want to share your time & build and grow with you.

We prefer the ease of surface relationships as they paint the illusion of connection but without the real emotional investment or accountability. We would rather text than talk, face time than spend real time.

Many are serial dating and running from relationship to relationship seeking a quick fix and instant gratification. We desire to give the least amount of ourselves as we can but want the other to give their all or we pour all of our magical goodness into someone who sees us as nothing more than an ego boost or space filler until something better comes along.

We are wimps & wusses when it comes to LOVE and we run from anything and anyone that presents a challenge, that forces us to grow, & that requires our presence and us to deal with ourselves and our shit. We hide behind casual encounters and would rather “get off” than “Get Better”. We would rather “hump” than “Heal”. Rather “cum” than “Come to a Better Understanding of Self”. We seek what’s merely appeasing to our eyes over what can expand our hearts & souls and push us to the next level of mastery.

Growth/Expansion can only come when we move courageously through the experiences we draw into our lives. Not by running from and side stepping anything that requires a bit of effort on your part. People and experiences do not just randomly show up in your life. Your soul calls them forth. The gifts and golden nuggets are discovered during the most difficult quest. Yes…Love can be a challenge, commitment can be a challenge. Staying when it’s easier to run can be a challenge but it’s the challenges that bring out our inner warrior, that help shape our character, round out any rough edges, give us lessons we need for our future success and most importantly allow us to realize that we can manage through anything that comes our way..that we are POWERFUL!

The easy path is not always the most fruitful. People & experiences that push you out of your comfort zone & make you feel force you to dig deeper and are a gift from the Universe. As a stronger and wiser version of YOUR most amazing self awaits you on the other side of the experience”

~ Shared with Love from the heart of the Being Living this Life as Twin Spirit