Tag Archives: joy

Random Musings: Let It Go!!!

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“Sometimes the best BEST thing you can do is simply “Let Go”….

Of people who don’t value you, expectations, fears, pain, unhealthy connections, judgements, preconceived notions, lost causes, unrequited love, the desire to control, playing small, being a martyr, game players, situations that leave you unfulfilled, time wasters, essence zappers, & spirit breakers.

Holding on tightly to and focusing on these things drains your energy and distracts you from all of the possibilities that await you. Life goes on and the sun always rises and shines its light brightly somewhere everyday…So Should We! #BeLikeTheSUN” ~ Words from the heart of: Twin Spirit #SharedWithLove

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Random Musings: Moment of Gratitude

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All in all I have a pretty great life. My circle is small but the care, love, support, & friendship runs deep. I get to spend lots of my time doing things I genuinely enjoy with people I genuinely enjoy. My family is good and most days my heart is full. Are there challenges? Of course, but even those create the opportunity for me to dig deeper, to push forward, and discover my strength. It’s easy to get so caught up in the illusion of “the struggle” that we forget just how good our lives truly are. While they may not be filled with every little thing we want if we take an honest inventory I bet we will find that they are filled with every thing that we truly need. This moment of #Gratitude brought to you by the letter T (thankful). ~ always Twin Spirit www.iAmTwinSpirit.com

Random Musings: Mediocrity is a Prison

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“Mediocrity is a prison that entraps people and steals dreams. It’s the one prison where breaking out is the right thing to do. Wanting a thing is not enough, you must know that it is possible and believe that you can in fact achieve it. We settle for many things in life not because its what we truly desire but because we are afraid to want more, believe it’s the best we will ever have, and/or we simply won’t do the work required to have a better experience.” ~ Twin Spirit #BeInspired To LIVE Your Best Life

Random Musings: Radical Honesty

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Are You COURAGEOUS Enough To Be Honest?

To be honest with yourself and others can be a difficult thing, because, in order to be honest, you must be courageous enough to take a look deep into your psyche and confront your weaknesses, fears, & insecurities—and expose them openly to the world—which is what we are most afraid of.

The majority of us have contrived a false image of ourselves. This image, however, is just a veil to cover our shadow self, not only from the eyes of others, but from our own as well. Thus the way we have been living so far is just an escape from self-understanding and genuine communication.

Unless we face, understand, and accept ourselves—unless we get in tune with the core of our feelings, emotions, thoughts, and intentions—how can we find harmony within ourselves and the world?

To look for truth, and to be honest, is terrifying. Forget big universal truths; I’m talking about little truths, personal truths. We are afraid to look inward, and to be honest with ourselves. And even if we are courageous enough to do that, then we are so concerned with the feelings of others, that we are afraid to share our truths with them. We punish ourselves with all sorts of guilt for even imagining causing someone emotional pain, when we really have no idea how they will feel if we were actually honest. We jump through crazy ridiculous hoops, all because we want to avoid the turmoil of potential emotional pain (theirs and ours). Being honest and being kind are not mutually exclusive. You can and should deliver your truth without blame or judgment, but definitely with kindness.

Sometimes we find ourselves in relationship dynamics with people who we perceive as emotionally fragile or explosive (it’s really the same thing). So we subjugate ourselves, and learn to maneuver around them. We do everything we can just to avoid those emotional mines. We never know when we’ll step on some trigger, so we hide the parts of ourselves we assume they will not accept or understand. We tread lightly. We speak less honestly. We express ourselves less openly. But unwittingly and inevitably repeating this process over and over, day in and day out, can cause resentments to grow. The less we share…the less of a connection is made. 

Instead, I propose that we try honesty. (It’s really scary, I KNOW, but it’s so very worth it). Let’s respect one another. Let’s trust each other to handle the truth. Let’s be really clear within ourselves, and with all the other people in our lives. Let’s unchain ourselves from guilt and obligation. Let’s give ourselves permission to be open, honest, & free. Let’s forget about seeking approval, and instead live in our own integrity. It is near to impossible to get to the places you desire and to receive the things you want in life when you are not open and honest about what you truly need.

In order to really give love, in a way that is unconditional you have to love yourself first. To love yourself simply means to honor your own needs.

Really living your truth is about getting still enough, and being courageous enough, to admit to yourself what you want, and what you don’t want. It’s tuning in to the pit-of-your-stomach feelings, and figuring stuff out from there. It is about standing in your integrity, and following your internal guidance, even when it goes against social norms, the mores of your specific community, or the good intentioned opinions of those we care for.

It takes courage, real courage, to live/speak your truth. Courage isn’t about jumping out of airplanes or diving with sharks. It’s not about physical activities that get the adrenaline pumping. Real courage happens in very quiet and subtle moments. In those intimate, vulnerable exchanges when you’re afraid to speak the truth. When you’re afraid to honor your own feelings, when you’re afraid that if you say or do what your heart is asking of you, that you will be dismissed, shamed, ridiculed, or rejected. Or that the truth of your feelings will hurt the feelings of another.

The most amazing thing about radical honesty is that YES it’s not always easy and Yes your life will change but you aren’t going to be alone and rejected in the ways you may worry about. You will instead filter out the people who love and accept the real you, from those that only conditionally accept you (if you fit in to the image of who they want you to be). If you are brave enough to be the real you, you will find lots of love, support, friendship, opportunity, and companionship from other souls who are just like you.

I hope you find the courage to try it. Being the real you (whatever that means), out in the open, it is truly gifts you with a rewarding and delicious life experience!

From my heart to yours,
Love Always…
~ Twin Spirit ღ

Random Musings: Amore…Poly

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“To be wrapped in the warm secure cocoon of your never letting go. Knowing that no matter where I may roam your heart keeps me tethered to the place called home. Giving the soul enough space to blossom, manifest, & unfold. This is the power our trust truly holds.

You understand my need to simply be free, not insecure or frightened by me just being me….Your ability to love me just as I AM is the strong foundation on which our love stands.

Forsaking all others you never require of me as our love is built on radical honesty. We understand that love is infinite possibility…we allow it to bloom where ever our hearts plant a seed, be it as a unit or individually.

Freedom…that’s the magic you see. Allowing one another to fully BE. There is only 1 you & only 1 me and we get to design what works for “We”. Sharing our lives is a choice that we make and I choose you again & again everyday.

To see your heart open and a beautiful smile on your face means such a great deal to me. It matters not if the source of that joy is your love for “Us” or your love for “She”. If she matters to you then she matters to me. I suppose in a world that requires a label that makes our style of Amore…Poly.

The beautiful thing at the end of the day is there is nothing else I’d rather it BE.” ღ ~ Love Free by Twin Spirit ღ

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Random Musings: LOVE is FREEDOM

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A Moment of Transparency: While I am a very open person I do not feel compelled to share all of me with everyone. Yes, I just want to be “Naked” but only before those that can appreciate the gift, power, & level of responsibility that relating in that state brings.

I have no desire to be liked or understood by everyone. No compulsion to fit in or be accepted by the masses. I genuinely like who I am as a person and I am okay with the areas in which I am still growing and learning.

Deeper connections for me honestly don’t happen very often but when they do it happens organically. Sometimes an interaction with another person strikes a chord in me and I feel inspired to explore the essence of who they are more deeply or it feels as if I have known them since forever, it feels like going home.

For Me caring & loving doesn’t mean owning. It does not give me exclusive rights to your heart, mind, body, or soul. It however does allow me the opportunity to share those beautiful parts of you in whatever way you wish to share them with me. It allows me to view the world through your eyes, to feel, to see, to hear things in a way that only you can and to savor that expression.

I do not want to hoard you or hide you away from the world. I want my presence to be Freeing and for it to wrap you in a blanket of comfort so warm and secure that it encourages and inspires you to LIVE and be the most Authentic Version of yourself that you can.

I want you to experience all the things that your spirit desires on this journey unencumbered by the limiting and sometimes suffocating effects of controlling insecurity that many have labeled as LOVE.” ~ from the heart of Twin Spirit

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Random Musings:Loving Free

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“Loving You doesn’t mean owning You. It does not give me exclusive rights to your heart, mind, body, or soul. It however allows me the opportunity to share those beautiful parts of you in whatever way you wish to share them with me. It allows me to view the world through your eyes, to feel, to see, to hear things in a way that only you can and to savor that expression.

I do not want to hoard you or hide you away from the world. I want my love to be Freeing and for it to wrap you in a blanket of comfort so warm and secure that it encourages and inspires you to LIVE and be the most Authentic Version of yourself that you can.

I want you to experience all the things that your spirit desires on this journey unencumbered by the limiting and sometimes suffocating effects of controlling insecurity that many have labeled as LOVE.” ~ from the heart of Twin Spirit ❦

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