Monthly Archives: March 2016

Random Musings: All of Me or None of Me



“Feeling something in my heart is required for “ME” to feel sexually attracted to someone and to act on that attraction. I do find it rather interesting that some people still consider it prudish if you actually desire some semblance of emotional connection before engaging. I’m personally just not sexually attracted to beings who don’t move me or stir me deeply in some way. As I have said on many occasions My Heart is Connected to My Vagina and My Mind. They work together..They are a team. You can’t have one without the other. That’s just how I’m wired. People like to pick and choose the pieces of you they want. I say..You take all of me or None of Me ❣  ‪#‎UnapologeticallyMeAndProud‬” ~ Twin Spirit


Random Musings: No “Them” & “Us”



“We often forget what truly matters and is really important in life. In our quest for validation and acceptance from the masses we waste so much precious time and energy. We flash our money, our degrees, our bodies, our titles, our social status, our belief systems, & our accomplishments. We wear them as badges of honor. We honestly believe that the sum total of these things equal our Worth and we measure ourselves & the rest of the world against this illusion of standards we have set so firmly in place. Though we often deny it…we are so hungry for real connection yet we do the very things that keep us separated, lonely, and empty. In our quest for respect and our thirst for retribution we forget that real transformative Power & Value lies in the simplest thing. That thing my friend is KINDNESS! More than anything else, it is a way of living and walking through life. It is a way of dealing with all that is–our selves, our bodies, our dreams and goals, our neighbors, our competitors, our enemies, our air, our earth, our animals, our space, our time, and our very consciousness. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves. Each kindness changes the world. There is no “THEM” & “US”. We will either learn to survive together or we will perish together. The choice is and always has been ours…Shared with Love” ~ Twin Spirit

You Are Enough!


“Embracing that I AM all I Need.
Finding Beauty in All I See.
Embracing the light, the love, the joy.
I Finally Know that I’m ENOUGH!” ~ Twin Spirit

My beautiful spirits please know that You are ENOUGH! More than Enough! You are deserving of love, respect, kindness, & consideration, just as you are. REMEMBER:

1. You are a miracle. Never forget this fact. Just the science alone is mind blowing.

2. You are unique. No one will ever be as good at being You as you are. Seriously.

3. You are enough. Always. Never doubt this. There is nothing to add, but feel free to expand.

4. There is always more to learn, but that is not failure, it is a gift.

5. Every obstacle is an opportunity to fall further into the miracle that is you.

6. Commit to being the best version of you every day. Recalibrate definition of “best” as needed.

7. Leave room for others when they fall off the wagon of their own miracle.

8. Forgive. Forgive. Forgive. Forgive every which way. Forgive him. Forgive her. Forgive you. The more you forgive, the more you’ll enjoy being you, because the lighter your load will be.

9. Compassion is the key to forgiveness. Compassion means you feel the humanity in others.

10. In the end, as in the beginning: You. Are. Amazing.